The Ultimate Guide to Dildos: Shapes, Sizes, Materials & How to Choose the Right One

Why Dildos Are a Pleasure Essential

Let’s be honest — when most people picture a sex toy, the first image that pops into mind is a dildo. And there’s a reason for that. Dildos are one of the most versatile, body-friendly, and confidence-boosting pleasure tools ever created. Whether you’re exploring solo pleasure, enhancing intimacy with a partner, or discovering new sensations entirely, a dildo can be the key to unlocking a deeper connection with your body.

At NaughtyEh.ca, we believe pleasure is for everyone — no shame, no taboos, just body-safe fun delivered discreetly across Canada. So let’s break it all down: what dildos are, how to choose the perfect one, and how to care for your new favourite toy.

What Is a Dildo (and How It Differs from a Vibrator)

A dildo is a non-vibrating, penetrative toy designed for vaginal, anal, or external stimulation. It’s all about motion — your hand or your partner’s hand provides the rhythm, control, and pressure.

By contrast, a vibrator uses internal motors to deliver buzzes or pulses that stimulate nerves directly. Some toys combine both (vibrating dildos), but classic dildos are entirely manual — and that’s part of their appeal. You decide exactly how it feels.

Materials Matter: Silicone, Glass, Metal & More

Material choice makes a huge difference in feel, durability, and safety. Here’s what you need to know:

When in doubt, 100% silicone is the gold standard for safety and sensation.

Shapes, Sizes & Styles: Finding Your Fit

No two bodies (or preferences) are the same — and the dildo world has something for everyone. Here’s a breakdown of popular styles:

• Realistic Dildos — Molded to mimic the look and texture of the real thing, complete with lifelike ridges and veins.  View some of our collection here.

• G-Spot Dildos — Curved tip designed to hit internal sweet spots with precision. Explore our G-Spot collection here.

• Double-Ended Dildos — Perfect for couples or creative solo use, offering stimulation from both ends. Discover our double-ended line-up here.

• Harness-Compatible Dildos — Feature a flared base for secure use in strap-ons.

• Anal-Safe Dildos — Always have a wide base to prevent over-insertion — comfort and safety first!

• Glass & Metal Dildos — Great for experimenting with firmness, temperature, and control.

💡 Tip: Start smaller than you think. You can always size up later once you know what your body enjoys.

How to Choose Your First (or Next) Dildo

A few questions to ask yourself before buying:

1. What kind of stimulation do I want? Internal, external, anal, or G-spot?

2. Do I prefer flexibility or firmness? Silicone bends; glass and metal stay firm.

3. Will I use it solo or with a partner? A suction-cup base or harness compatibility can open new possibilities.

4. How important is realism? Some prefer lifelike shapes; others love artistic, abstract designs.

5. How large should it be? Most beginners enjoy 4–6" insertable length and 1–1.25" girth.

If you’re just starting out, choose a medium-size silicone dildo with a smooth shaft and flared base — it’s safe, easy to clean, and feels amazing.

Lube, Cleaning & Care

Your dildo will last longer (and feel better) with the right care:

• Always wash before and after use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner.

• Dry thoroughly and store it in a lint-free pouch or its original box.

• Use water-based lubricants with silicone toys — never silicone-on-silicone, as it can degrade the surface.

• For glass or metal toys, experiment safely with temperature by warming or cooling them before play.

🔗 Shop essentials:

• Water-Based Lubes

• Toy Cleaners

Safety & Consent

Pleasure is always better when it’s consensual, safe, and shame-free.

• Never share toys without using condoms between partners.

• Always use a flared base for anal play.

• Avoid porous or scented materials that may irritate skin.

• Listen to your body — if it doesn’t feel right, stop immediately.

Remember: pleasure should empower, not pressure.

Shop Dildos at Naughty Eh

Ready to explore your perfect match? Browse our Dildo Collection — from smooth silicone starters to bold, body-safe designs for every fantasy.

All orders are shipped discreetly within Canada, so your fun stays your business. Because at Naughty Eh, we believe pleasure should always feel natural, confident, and entirely yours.

Final Thoughts

Dildos aren’t just toys — they’re tools for connection, discovery, and self-expression. Whether you’re exploring your body for the first time or adding to your collection, there’s no “right” way to enjoy one.

So go ahead — find your rhythm, explore your sensations, and make pleasure a proud part of your self-care routine.